Nobel Peace Prize laureate Malala Yousafzai is reintroducing herself to the world and sharing her private journey in her new memoir, “Discovering My Means.”
In an interview on “CBS Mornings” on Wednesday, Yousafzai stated she hopes readers will see her as greater than an activist.
“I’ve grown over the previous decade, and there was a lot extra to my life that I needed to share with individuals. This has been a journey of navigating friendships, marriage, psychological well being, and my activism. I am reintroducing myself,” stated Yousafzai.
Earlier than the assault, Yousafzai described herself as a spirited younger lady in Pakistan who liked to talk her thoughts. Yousafzai first captured international consideration in 2012 on the age of 15 when she was shot within the head by a gunman from the Taliban for advocating ladies’ schooling in her house area of Swat Valley. After surviving the assault, she was flown to the UK for emergency remedy. It was an occasion that will change the course of her life.
Yousafzai stated the world first heard her story whereas she was in a coma on the hospital.
Following her restoration, Yousafzai and her household settled in Birmingham, England, the place she continued her schooling. The transition to a brand new nation and tradition was not simple.
“Language barrier, cultural barrier. Lots of the explanation why in these years of highschool within the U.Okay., I struggled to make any associates,” she stated.
Decided to rebuild her life, Yousafzai went on to attend Oxford University, the place she earned a level in philosophy, politics, and economics in 2020. She stated that in her school years, she was centered on one thing she had lengthy missed—friendship.
“I had one aim in school: Socialize, make associates, that’s it,” she stated. “I had missed on this chance of getting associates in my life. I used to be so fortunate that I met the suitable individuals on the proper time.”
Her memoir additionally explores her psychological well being journey and the emotional aftermath of surviving violence. She typically had panic and nervousness assaults and experienced a flashback in school after smoking marijuana.
“It was a traditional night time, and my associates had been attempting bong, and I noticed it for the primary time,” she recalled. “I attempted bong with my associates, and immediately, because it entered my physique, it took a pointy flip, and I froze in that second, and I used to be reliving the Taliban assault flashbacks. I assumed I had forgotten.”
Significance of remedy and discovering love
She stated it wasn’t till a buddy inspired her that she determined to hunt remedy, and she or he realized it was an unaddressed a part of her restoration from her assault.
“It was solely when a buddy advised that I see a therapist, and she or he jogged my memory that it’s normal in school for youths who’re struggling to get remedy,” she stated. “That is one thing that I had missed in my remedy. I noticed it as simply surgical procedures and drugs, however I by no means thought of remedy as a part of the restoration.”
Yousafzai additionally writes about discovering love and overcoming her early fears of marriage. She married Asser Malik, a Pakistani sports activities administration investor, in 2021, describing their relationship as one constructed on partnership and shared values.
“I had doubts about marriage. Rising up, I had seen little ladies married off, forcefully, illegally, and I used to be afraid of marriage,” she stated. “After I met the suitable individual, I knew I needed to be with him.”